Personal affection is a luxury you can have only after all your enemies are eliminated. Until then, everyone you love is a hostage, sapping your courage and corrupting your judgment.

Orson Scott Card
About This Quote

This quote from Sun Tzu is a reminder that personal relationships are often based on the security of your position. If your enemies are defeated, then you can begin to appreciate those around you and give them love and affection. However, if your enemies still live and threaten you, then only the security of your position allows you to have the luxury of loving those around you.

Source: Empire

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